🛑 Stop overthinking: How to break the vicious cycle and find mental peace 🤔
- Hicham El Sghiar
- Apr 16, 2025
- 4 min read
In this blog, you’ll discover how to stop the vicious cycle of overthinking and create more mental peace. You’ll learn why worrying can be addictive, what it does to your brain, and how to regain control of your thoughts with practical techniques and mindset shifts. No more endless rumination – it’s time for clarity and calm. Because overthinking is like worshipping the problem.
We all worry. About money, work, relationships, or that embarrassing comment you made three years ago. But what if I told you that worrying is nothing more than a thought ritual where you place the problem on a pedestal?
Think about it: worrying doesn’t change the situation, but it drains your energy as if you’re lighting a candle and praying to the holy spirit of stress. So why do we do this? And more importantly: how can you stop overthinking? Below, I’ll share concrete strategies to help steer your thoughts in the right direction.
🌀 Why overthinking is so addictive
Overthinking often feels productive. You think: If I just think about it enough, I’ll find a solution! But in reality, you’re just spinning in circles in your mind without making any real progress. Your brain is working overtime, but you’re not moving forward.
🔎 Why do we keep overthinking?
✔️ We want control over uncertain situations
✔️ Our brain believes preparing equals solving
✔️ Fear fuels the thought that we “have to do something”
✔️ It feels like we’re being active (even if only mentally)
But here’s the truth: Overthinking is like sitting in a rocking chair – you’re always moving, but you’re going nowhere.
🚨 The Negative Effects of Overthinking
Overthinking affects not only your mind but also your body. Your brain wasn’t designed to be switched on 24/7. Yet, worrying activates your stress response, making your body feel like danger is near.
What happens in your brain?
⚡ Cortisol rises → You feel tense and anxious
⚡ Amygdala becomes overactive → Fear and panic increase
⚡ Sleep is disrupted → You become tired and irritable
⚡ Decision-making declines → You stay stuck
In short: overthinking makes everything worse. So why don’t we just stop? Because our brains can be stubborn. But thankfully, we can train them.
🔄 From Overthinking to Solving: The Mindset Shift You Need
To break free from overthinking, we need to change how we view problems. Here are three powerful mindset shifts:
1️⃣ Recognize it as a brain pattern, not the truth
🚦 Ask yourself: Is this a real concern or a “what-if” scenario? We often worry about things that never happen.
2️⃣ Give your brain a deadline
⏳ Set a timer for 5 minutes and allow yourself to worry. After that, stop. No exceptions.
3️⃣ Stop seeking absolute certainty
🔍 Life is uncertain. Perfect answers don’t exist. Accept that, and learn to live with “good enough.” It will save you hours of pointless thinking.
🛠️ Practical Techniques to Stop Overthinking
Now that you know why overthinking doesn’t help and how to shift your mindset, here’s what you can actually do when you feel stuck in a worry spiral. These are proven methods:
📌 1. The ‘Stop!’ Technique
💡 How it works: Every time you notice yourself overthinking, say “STOP!” out loud or visualize a red stop sign. This interrupts the thought loop.
📌 Why it works: It breaks the automatic overthinking pattern and gives your brain a new focus.
P.S. Check out this video when you have a moment 😋
✍️ 2. Write Down Your Worries
📝 How it works:Grab a notebook and write down all your worries. Give yourself permission to put everything on paper, without judgment.
📌 Why it works:
✔️ Your brain feels allowed to let go
✔️ Your worries seem smaller on paper
✔️ It forces you to think more clearly and less chaotically
🧘♂️ 3. Mindfulness: Stay in the Now
⏳ How it works: Every time your thoughts drift into “what-if” scenarios, bring yourself back to the present moment.
💡 Exercise:
✔️ Focus on your breathing (4 seconds in, 4 seconds out)
✔️ Feel your feet on the ground
✔️ Name 3 things you can see right now
📌 Why it works: Overthinking is mostly about the future. Staying in the NOW leaves less space for worry.
🎯 4. From Problem-Focused to Solution-Focused Thinking
🚀 How it works: Instead of endlessly replaying what could go wrong, ask yourself:
💡 “What can I do right now to address this?”
📌 Why it works: Your brain loves action. Once you focus on solutions, you feel more in control and less anxious.
🎭 Overthinking Isn’t a Solution, It’s a Habit
🔹 Overthinking feels like doing something, but leads nowhere.
🔹 You can train your brain to worry less and think more solution-oriented.
🔹 By applying mindset shifts and practical techniques, you stop “worshipping” the problem and start living in solutions.
🚀 What Can You Do Today?
✅ Become aware of your overthinking pattern
✅ Use the Stop technique
✅ Write it down and let it go
✅ Use mindfulness to stay present
✅ Focus on solutions
Your thoughts shape your reality. Which technique will you try today? Let me know in the comments! 👇😊
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